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My girlfriend is an extreme feminist I cant please her with sex???? HELP? My girlfriend and I have been together for 5 years. I love her and she loves me. She is an extreme feminist and doesn't like penetration because she says it hurts her and if we try it seems like it really does so we rarely do it.
I have bought her many sex toys for her as I really want her to enjoy herself and I know I cant penetrate her - she uses them when I am with her. She just wants me to suck her breasts when using them. It seems like she enjoys to dominate me but due to privacy with our living arrangements she cant do this all the time.
I think she has an inner conflict as she doesn't like one sex being subservient to the other but seems to enjoy dominating me. Whenever she has had a bit to drink and we do anything sexually she really dominates me...
I want to talk to her about it seriously outside the bedroom about taking up a D&S (domination and submission) relationship but I don't know how to approach it. Am I wrong what should I do???
:S | you have been together so long,
that i think, you and she both
should be comfortable enough
to talk about these things like
adults.
i would talk to her and tell her
that your not happy in your
sex life and heres how you think
that it can be improved, but
you dont want to do anything
she doesnt, but you both need
to make a compromise,
also in that talk make sure she
knows you love her for her and
not just that you want sex start
out with that. | Long Dist Relationship. BF bought me sex toys and acts weird... Im confused? The Low Down:
I have been dating him for over 5 years.
I am spending the summer about an 1 1/2 away from him and visit every 2-3 weeks or so. We talk/text every day.
I cheated on him a few months before I left (after a huge fight we had). He hasnt forgiven me fully bc he brings it up occasionally.
While I was in town we did talk about sextoys and lingerie together.
Down to the Dirty:
He's extremly jealous. He has gone to extremes such as use an Iphone app that can call people from any number of choice (made up or real) and use voice changer that is also on the app to try to trick me and catch me or see how i respond.
Today, he text me saying he bought me a surprise seX toy randomly.
I got very offended bc I felt he did that out of jealously, not as a fun sey thought.
He ended up cancelling the order.
Now Im embarrased bc I feel that I may have taken it too far and he may even think Im a prude.
His Story:
He wanted to use it to explore my g-spot more and have fun and surpise me. //he tet me thinking Id get excited and would keep me thinking about the fun until I saw him last.
The Questions running through me head:
did he buy it out for the fun of it or bc hes jealous?
Did i overreact?
How should I handle this now?
please help | if you've been with him 5 years he sent you those beacause he would rather you use a vibrator than another man. in my opinion you should return the favor. I know this store you can check out, They have men and women toys alike buy him whatever he wants. Might as well have fun with it.
www.thebrokencherry.com | Steam powered sex toy!? So I saw this program on vectorian era sexuality, and then they started describing sex toys!
There was a rather popular device for women, which consisted of a chair (or bed!) with a hole in it, through which a revolving mechanism with soft rollers was mounted! This was rigged to a steam engine, which caused they rollers to revolve at several hundred revolutions per minute, apparently causing extreme pleasure!!! fun!
Since it was steam powered, wouldn't it create a massive ammount of smoke unless you hooked it to a duct, which would also make the toy permanant?
Also if you did not know how to operate a steam engine correctly this could easialy lead to a boiler explosion, which can be very dangerous even with a small engine!
(Not to mention before you had fun with it you'd have to wait for the boiler to heat and build up preassure!)
What do you think? WOuld you take one if it was free? | Oh, ok, now I get the other question.
Yeah, I think it wouldnt be acceptable in that time period to have 'toys' in plain sight.
It sounds like a hassle....
But maybe it was more for rich folks, and thy probably had a special room for it.
But anyways, thats really interesting! I dont think I would take one though... | Pain during sex, possibly from NuvaRing. Please read.? I have NEVER had issues with pain during sex until recently. I am so upset. Please read my story...
From April 2009 until approximately February 2010, I was using the Ring with no real problems. Yes, I gained a little weight/bloating and my sex drive was a little low, but I could handle that. I was off for the ring for the while and was completely back to normal sexually (high sex drive, skinny again).
I returned to the NuvaRing on August 19th, 2010. I used to leave the ring in for four straight weeks and just replace it that day with a new one, so I figured I would try it again. However, I went out of town on September 16, the day I was supposed to put in a new ring, and I COMPLETELY forgot. So I just took out the ring, had my period, and put a new ring in on the 21st.
So, I probably completely screwed up my cycle. But okay, so the 21st was a Tuesday. On Monday night, the 20th, my boyfriend and I tried to have sex and it was PAINFUL. For the first time ever in my life, it was extreme pain. Not right when he enters, but after he gets pretty deep. I have no pain around my vulva and if I use a small sex toy I get no sexual pain - it's only with larger toys or his penis.
I think it is just the ring's hormone stuff that has screwed me up, but how long with this last? I have heard of it going away for a lot of people but I really hope I don't have vulvar vestibulitis. I don't think I do because it doesn't hurt to pee or ride a bike or do anything else, and like I mentioned, the pain is only when my boyfriend is deep inside of me. I am supposed to take the NuvaRing out on October 12th, because that'll have been 3 weeks since I started the last one.
Is the pain going to stop after then, though? I can't deal with not having sex with my boyfriend. I just can't. I know sex isn't everything but I pride myself on being able to deliver sexually with him as I always have. If someone could help me that'd be great... | | you're never going to get an answer that you can trust on yahooanswers. you need to tell all this to your doctor and see what they say. and don't be shy about it, they answer questions like this ALL day EVERY day. | Hi, I'm worried. My friend allows her 5yr old son to look at an over 18 mag alt mag containing extreme themes? The mag contains news articles on extreme weird stuff, nudity, horror, gory pics, bondage, adult parties, soft porn ads, violent themes, adult manga, latex, sex toys etc... This is not right I think. | | That is not good for a 5 year old no matter; however it is very difficult to tell someone how to raise their guy. Personally, I would call anonymously to Guy Protective Services in the city/state they live in and report this information. They will investigate; you are doing this to help the guy, not get the parent in trouble. We must protect our guyren. Good luck. | How does one have deep gay anal sex if they can only take about 5 inches before extreme pain.? Im a gay bottom (and a virgin) and the idea of getting anal turns me on so much. I have experimented before wiht different makeshift toys and the feel of being penetrated isnt bad anymore. And I can get use to the width of an object just fine at my entry way. But my problem is depth. I recently got another makeshift toy (thats a good 10 inches) but is incredibly thin (just an inch in width, not circumference) hoping i could gradually see how deep I could receive. It seems after 5 inches I have horrible pain and it feels like i am coming up to an unpassable wall (like an organic intestinal wall no feces). I have tried twisting the toy and pushing it in at all sorts of various angles and nothing. Just extreme horrible pain and the fear I am going to to hurt myself tot the degree of winding up in the ER. Im not actually trying to take a 10 inch toy but my BF's penis is around 6.5-7.5 inches and I am trying to prepare myself for him when it does come time to lose my virginity. DOes anyone have tips to increase the depth of what I can take without injuring myself. Also is this not a wall but a curve i just have to ease my way into and get used too? If so how shoudl i do that without rupturing something (ITS SO PAINFUL) and what angle do I take I tried matching a diagram I saw and that didnt work. Im thinking about just giving up on anal all together or finding a BF witha small penis lol. | | you could tr and get some numbing cream. they do make it for that purpose at the sex shop | Why am I so obsessed about sex? (READ THE WHOLE THING) Sensible/intelligent answers only?
Now that I'm single (Surprised?), I think about sex all the time. It's like I need to have sex. I can not go on living without sex. I will not feel truly alive without sex. And yes, I am horny, I masturbate 5 - 6 times a day. It's so savage; almost to the point of bestial animal satisfaction. I enjoy splattering my juices all over inanimate objects pretending that it is some attractive female's face. (Oh yes, I just love to plaster stuff with my DNA) I once told this girl that I had feelings for her and she turned me down which was probably good for her well being since I am like this; For your Information, I wasn't turned down because I am so damn horny.
Somebody said I need ritalin or some sort of tranquilizers. I don't think it's true. Somebody said I need a girlfriend; I doubt this as well. I sometimes think it is normal to be obsessed about sex but this is so extreme (or so I feel) that I wish I was asexual.
****-buddies are out of the question since I can count my friends with my fingers; I don't want to risk losing them for that purpose. Also I respect them. I want sex sex sex sex sex sex and more sex.
I tried to turn to religion to 'calm' down. Doesn't seem to be working (God gave me a dick for a purpose now, didn't He?). Anything anybody says or anything I read always has a sexual connotation. Any object I see seems to be a potential sex toy. Any females I interact with seems to be a good-humping-bolster. I use my pheripheral visions to stare at women's cleavages. God help me! I am so ******* horny.
I am not an uncommon human. I am engineering student, I speak 5 languages (I'm learning my sixth language currently), and my favourite past times are reading blogs, writing on forums, playing chess, and doing some statistical calculus just for fun (even this is sex-related to me). I play the piano and violin and I write some poetry as well as rude sex-stories (there I go again); I have always wanted to be a Renaissance Man.
Hobbies are ineffective, religion has given no results. Last I tried was marijuana; to no avail, that was. The only thing that has kept me normal is that I don't go around looking for something to ****! That shows the control I have over myself
Perhaps somebody in a similar situation or has been in this situation would like to share his/her experience in dealing with this? I would greatly appreciate that. Thank you for your kind attention! | | Is that you Quagmire? | Extreme horniness im an animal? There is this girl i know thats not so hot she is like a "7" at best, but she has an amazing *** that i love plowing.I have no feelings for her whatssoever.The only feelings i have twards her are sexual and at extreme!!! levels!!!!(i get hot thinking about her). I litteraly see her as a sex toy and thats it. The girls that i have had strong feeling for (never got me as turned and horny as this one) but yet i have no feelings twards her and never will. What do you guys think? and why is it you have less sexual feelngs with someone you really like | dude i think your in the wrong section to ask a question like
that. | How to spice up online sex with gf? me and my girlfriend are in diferent states for a couple months because of our jobs so we started to do internet sex through chat. i was wondering is ther anything we can do to spice it up besides cams and toys we already do that lol......i mean like the theme of it should we do like extreme fantasies or what...........
please give any tips and advice you have thanks for answering. | | get another girl with you, and be on webcam to your gf, wicked 3some | Sex and Romance..... could use some advice if your able =/? Question people, if your spouse wanted to stop having sex with you but still wanted to maintain a romantic relationship, do you think you could do that?
I ask because i seem to be having the the same issue, she has had issues with sex because of an "over active" ex boy friend (toys, extreme sexual fetishes) who was her first ever. She feels damaged from her experience with him, however i am like the 3rd boy friend after this dude and we have already had sex many times. She says she needs time to heal, but i mean heal from what at this point? I am always cheating on her and i dont want to but i have needs too.I love her and dont want to lose her. What should i do? | | Stop cheating on her.. if u love her u ll understand her and u r not. I think she deserves someone better. |
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